Joining intentional communities involves more extensive process than buying property because communities screen for compatibility and commitment.
Research & Initial Contact
Start by researching communities matching your values and location preferences. Online directories list hundreds of intentional communities: Fellowship for Intentional Community (ic.org), Ecovillage Network of Americas, Cohousing Association. Review community websites, governance documents, and membership requirements. Initial contact usually involves email introduction sharing your background, interests, and reasons for seeking community. Communities receive many inquiries — thoughtful messages differentiating you matter.
Visiting & Trial Periods
Most communities require in-person visits before accepting members. Visit formats vary: weekend visitor programs ($20-$100 per night including meals), week-long work exchanges (free accommodation for daily labor contribution), and extended trial memberships (1-6 months living as provisional member). Visiting reveals compatibility that websites can't convey — observe decision-making processes, member interactions, daily rhythms, and whether community values match your expectations. Many people visit 5-10 communities before finding the right fit.
Provisional Membership
Communities typically require provisional membership periods (3-18 months) before full membership. Provisional members participate in community life, attend meetings, contribute labor, and pay reduced fees while community and individual evaluate fit. This protects both parties — community avoids admitting incompatible members while individuals avoid long-term commitments to unsuitable communities. Provisional periods end with community decision (consensus or vote) granting full membership or requesting departure.
Financial Commitments
Understand all costs before joining: membership buy-ins ($5,000-$100,000+) purchasing land rights or infrastructure share, land lease payments if community owns land collectively ($100-$500 monthly), construction costs if building your own dwelling ($20,000-$200,000+), monthly operating expenses ($50-$500) covering utilities, maintenance, and shared services, and special assessments for major repairs or upgrades. Some communities refund buy-ins when members leave; others retain portions for infrastructure depreciation.
Legal & Governance Documents
Review all legal documents before committing: land ownership structures (co-op, LLC, trust, individual parcels), membership agreements specifying rights and responsibilities, bylaws governing decision-making and meetings, and ecological covenants or building restrictions. Consult lawyers if significant money is involved — community purchase represents major financial commitment deserving legal review.